When are you going to get tired of sitting on the sidelines watching every one else get up and live? you know, it's not difficult to build self esteem and find happiness when you start going for your dreams and goals. Have you ever felt the exhilaration of starting your goals and feeling really good because you finally got up and started making things happen? That's a wonderful feeling... But some of us, in the back of our minds, we keep a little place for fear and a small voice says, "you're not going to keep this up". "You really can't do it so don't fool yourself" Then after allowing yourself to feel that wonderful energy of being and doing, you find any excuse to shut down and go back to what you've always done and that's dream about reaching a goal and talking about getting it done but not taking the daily effort to really accomplish it. We all psyche ourselves out like this at some point in our lives but it's the successful o