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Conquer Your Goals Part 2

 



 Happy New Year!

In this post, I’m going to give you a roadmap to reach your goals.

If you haven’t done so, be sure to check out part 1

 so that you can get the most out of  this post.

Now that you have dived deep into the questions in part 1 

to find out What you really Want and WHY...

let’s get into what Stormy Wellington calls the F.O.R.M.U.L.A.

Many roads can lead to a destination, and this is just one way to accomplish your goals.

This way is based on principles, biblical universal principles. 

In my humble opinion, no matter what your faith, 

you must believe in something greater than yourself to overcome certain things.

It just makes it easier.

So, the F stands for FAITH.

Set up a daily routine to pray, meditate, journal, 

whatever suits you to connect with your higher source.

It could be in the morning, which is a great way to start the day, 

Do it for at least 15mins.

O stands for ONENESS

The state of being connected in consciousness with those around you. 

Sort of like, “checking your space”

Make sure the energy of those around you are on one accord. 

Of course, positivity and optimism is what you want to have. 

If you are constantly around someone who is negative or pessimistic, 

and you feel an icky vide, brought down, or thrown off after being around them, 

don’t spend too much time around this person 

because it’s creating resistance to you moving forward. “Check Yo Space”

 R is for ROUTINE

These is a set of daily activities that you must establish to bring you closer to your goals. 

Even if its just 10 mins a day. 

Do something that move you towards your larger goal 

that’s better than continuously dreaming about it.  

The best thing that you can do for yourself is “Fall in LOVE with the process”

If you are consistently doing what will get you where you want to go 

and it becomes second nature to you then your success is assured.

I have created a calendar which is on my phone digitally and on paper to keep track of 

my day.  This is my home business daily agenda.



M is for Manifestation

I must be real; I was raised old school Christian and when I hear the term 

manifestation, 

it would irk me. 

It seemed as if people think they can do anything and take power from the Creator 

by just saying what they want ( like talking to a Genie), and to me, 

it just doesn’t work that way.

I decided to do a bit of research and I see manifestation as co-creation with your Maker.

There are many thoughts on manifestation and how to achieve it. 

But here’s my viewpoint.

If God/Creator made us in His image, then we can act as creators with Him.

He is allowing us to play a role in creating our best story. 

To do this, we must use what He gave us. 

Our imagination, 

our feelings

and the spoken word. 

 As well as our ability to write, journal………

Habakkuk 2:1-4  His Watchtower

1I will stand upon my watch, and set me upon the tower, and will watch to see what he will say unto me, and what I shall answer when I am reproved. 2And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it. 3For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry. 4Behold, his soul which is lifted up is not upright in him: but the just shall live by his faith.

So, to unpack this incredible scripture, in my own interpretation, 

this is what I believe it to be.

The first part speaks of a getting in a quiet place to reflect, meditate or pray. 

Then HE will SHOW you what HE will SAY to you. 

One way He speaks is in visions.

And then what I shall ANSWER when I am REPROVED.

Reproved implies gently correcting a fault.

So, in other words, 

Your Creator will let you know what areas of yourself 

that you need to work on....give you YOUR FORMULA.

And what I shall ANSWER….again, a vision of how to proceed... How to be.

So, your Creator gives you the instructions of what to do and the

steps to take to get to where you desire to go.

Then the scriptures goes on to say write the vision 

and make it plain that he may run that reads it.

Run..Get to the actions, do them and  dont waste time.

Read..See your vision!

I interpret this as….Be clear about what you want and where you are going.

Take it seriously and WORK! 

Don’t be lazy or let anything stop you from being diligent 

about following your daily routine because 

HE is FAITHFUL and it shall happen!

He's allowing you to write  your story with HIM.

So Believe It, See It and feel It!

He says, “at the end it shall speak and not lie”

What do we know thus far, It shall speak, means it will be real before our very eyes. 

MANIFESTED!

Act like you know because it is truth! 

Now check this next verse,…. 4Behold, his soul which is lifted up is not upright in him: but the just shall live by his faith.

He makes it very clear to remain humble. Not prideful. Those who think they are

manifesting based upon “Genie” tactics and not checking in with the Creator to Co-

create, to me, is the issue and what made the word manifestation irk me. 

I'm good now. :)

U is about YOU

Check in with yourself.

Your time, energy and attention are your most precious assets 

on the journey to achieving your goals.

Balance is key, and when I say balance. 

Its easy to assume I'm speaking of all outward  areas of your life but, 

when you are on a journey somewhere

 it is not uncommon to sacrifice certain areas of your life.

Balance means INNER BALANCE.

You have to be at peace within in order to manage your life properly. 

Whether its concerning your children, business, spouse, finances, etc. 

And you have to make plans,delegate and even sacrifice in some of these areas   

DISIPLINE

You can’t binge on Netflix or watch your favorite housewives 

and scroll through Tiktok for an hour.

Ask yourself “Is this helping stay on track with my vison?”

You have to check yourself.

Take account and asses vital areas of your life;

what you eat, how you snack, the quality of your sleep.

Where you spend your moiney and your time.

What you focus on and whay you think about.

Are you holding yourself accountable?  and checking in regularly?

My workbook with help with this.

OUTER BOUNDARIES

You also need to set up boundaries.

You cannot afford for everyone to have access to you.

Say “No” to things that don’t serve your higher purpose.

Reintroduce people to the new YOU!

Respond with kindness and love but Stern!

Your time is your most precious gift!

And don’t waste resources in unfruitful areas.

Check yourself!

L is for LOVE and LEADERSHIP

Always lead with Love.

The first person you have to lead is yourself

“I must be a Leader of Me (self) before I can lead any.

Be a leader of ONE then I can lead many” SW

“He that conquereth his own soul is greater than he who taketh a city,” Proverbs 16:32

Love requires a back- bone.

Love requires truth. 

Be real with yourself. You have to trust YOU!

If you lie to yourself.

When you don’t love and trust YOU. 

It shows up in your actions 

and that’s the story you are telling (showing) others.

There’s a great book called the 4 agreements that teaches to be impeccable with your 

word and  much more.

 A is for ALIGNMENT

This means to be in a position of agreement or alliance.

You must be aligned with Yourself first!

In my book, I share how to set your goals for each area of your life.

You want to get a vision for yourself physically, financially, and with family. 

Also any other area you choose.

The key is to design the F.O.R.M.U.L.A. that works for YOU 

because we are not alike, 

what may work for you may not work for your husband, 

your Momma or your friend.

This is why you must get with your Creator and design your unique plan of action.

I hope this helps you crush your goals this year!

Cheers!



 

 

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